Toi et Moi Engagement Rings
Toi et Moi Engagement Rings in New Zealand
Toi et Moi engagement rings feature two primary stones set together in one design, creating a distinctive and contemporary alternative to a traditional single-stone engagement ring.
The name “Toi et Moi” translates to “you and me”, reflecting the pairing of two stones within one ring.
At Nura Lab, our Toi et Moi engagement rings can be created with lab grown diamonds in complementary or contrasting shapes, carat weights and proportions.
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Shop Toi et Moi Rings by Diamond Shape
One of the defining features of a Toi et Moi ring is the ability to combine two different diamond shapes in a single design.
- Oval Toi et Moi Engagement Rings
- Pear Toi et Moi Engagement Rings
- Emerald Cut Toi et Moi Engagement Rings
- Radiant Toi et Moi Engagement Rings
- Round Toi et Moi Engagement Rings
- Marquise Toi et Moi Engagement Rings
- Cushion Toi et Moi Engagement Rings
Oval and Pear Toi et Moi Rings
Oval diamonds and pear diamonds are a popular pairing because their elongated shapes create a flowing, balanced composition.
Emerald and Pear Toi et Moi Rings
An emerald cut diamond paired with a pear-shaped diamond combines clean geometric lines with a softer, tapered shape for a striking contrast.
Radiant and Oval Toi et Moi Rings
Radiant diamonds can be paired with oval or pear-shaped stones for a high-brilliance design with contrasting outlines.
Toi et Moi vs Solitaire Engagement Rings
A solitaire engagement ring features one primary centre diamond and keeps the design focused on a single stone.
A Toi et Moi ring uses two centre stones, creating more visual movement and allowing two different diamond shapes to be combined in one design.
Toi et Moi vs Trilogy Engagement Rings
Trilogy engagement rings feature three stones, usually arranged symmetrically around a larger centre diamond.
Toi et Moi rings feature two primary stones and are often more asymmetric in appearance, giving them a distinctly contemporary character.
Toi et Moi Engagement Rings by Metal
Toi et Moi engagement rings can be crafted in a range of precious metals.
- Yellow Gold Engagement Rings
- White Gold Engagement Rings
- Rose Gold Engagement Rings
- Platinum Engagement Rings
Yellow gold creates a warm contrast with bright diamonds, while white gold and platinum provide a crisp, contemporary finish. Rose gold offers a softer and more distinctive look.
Depending on the design, Nura Lab rings may be available in 9K, 14K or 18K gold as well as platinum.
Custom Toi et Moi Engagement Rings
Toi et Moi designs are especially suited to customisation because each stone can be selected individually.
You can personalise details including:
- First diamond shape
- Second diamond shape
- Carat weight of each stone
- Diamond colour and clarity
- Stone orientation
- Spacing between the diamonds
- Gold or platinum
- Band width
- Prong style
- Eagle claw prongs
- Setting height
- Engraving
If you have a particular two-stone combination in mind, explore our Custom Engagement Rings and work with Nura Lab to create a Toi et Moi ring around your preferred diamond shapes and proportions.
Toi et Moi Engagement Rings by Price
Explore engagement rings across different budgets:
- Engagement Rings Under $2,000
- $2,000–$4,000 Engagement Rings
- $4,000–$6,000 Engagement Rings
- $6,000+ Engagement Rings
Toi et Moi Engagement Rings Auckland & NZ-Wide
Nura Lab offers lab grown diamond Toi et Moi engagement rings throughout New Zealand, with private consultations available in Auckland.
Whether you already have two diamond shapes in mind or would like help comparing proportions and pairings, our team can help you develop a balanced two-stone design.
Toi et Moi Engagement Rings FAQs
What is a Toi et Moi engagement ring?
A Toi et Moi engagement ring features two primary stones set together in one design. The style is often associated with two people coming together.
Do the two diamonds need to be the same shape?
No. One of the main appeals of a Toi et Moi ring is the ability to combine different diamond shapes, such as oval and pear or emerald and pear.
Do the two stones need to be the same size?
No. The stones can be similar in size or intentionally different, depending on the balance and overall look you prefer.
Can I choose the orientation of each diamond?
Yes. Depending on the design, the stones can be positioned vertically, diagonally, horizontally or at slightly different angles.
Can a Toi et Moi ring be made low profile?
In many designs, the setting can be kept relatively low while still providing appropriate clearance and security for both centre stones.
Can I customise a Toi et Moi engagement ring?
Yes. Diamond shapes, carat weights, spacing, orientation, metal, band width, prongs and setting height can all be considered during the custom design process.
How long does a custom Toi et Moi engagement ring take?
Most custom and made-to-order Nura Lab engagement rings take approximately 4–6 weeks after the final design and CAD have been approved, although timing can vary depending on the design and diamond availability.
Create Your Toi et Moi Engagement Ring
Choose two diamond shapes, your preferred proportions, metal and setting details to create a Toi et Moi engagement ring tailored to your style.
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